Why Cupid lost its way?

Love..the most divine and sacred feeling of all time. There is no comparison of being in true love with anything in the world. Definition of it may vary from person to person and perception to perception but the basic remain the same….
But slowly and gradually this love seems to fizz out or sit on the back seat of life and responsibilities and achievement take over the wheel ….there is no issue to prioritize other primary things of life but why on earth does love have to take a step backward? Why can’t all these things go hand in hand?
All those habits which used to feel like best in the world or cute or interesting after that phase feel like embarrassment or silly or childish or some time just ridiculous. Why the feel of love and effect of cupid lost in the way? Why the bonds of love take shape of iron chain?
I had seen in many relations where couple started with glimpse in the eyes and love in the heart but over the period of time eyes start showing just the level of responsibility and kind of duty which both have do and not the feeling which both should share.
What is the reason behind all these things? Why feeling lost its touch?
Lets see ….when we fall in love, in order to keep or partner happy or to show how much they love each other they started sacrificing the important bonds of their life, for someone it could be friends, for someone else it could be drinking and smoking and the list goes on and on……but over the period of time those things tend to come back from one way or other..on few instances they ignore those requirements which keep clicking in their mind, and which could coz any debate or argument and then those arguments lead them back to all those habits or stuff which they thought they left it way back in past. And it starts creating space between the couple which led to big communication gap.
Yes.. you got it right communication gap is other issue which chase cupid out of the life. People here are afraid of discussing the things and try to ignore the seriousness of the matter. They feel it’s just a passing phase of life it will be all right slowly and gradually, but unfortunately it doesn’t and it will not until and unless both of them come together and share their feelings……..
So, do not make these small things effect your relation..relations are hard earned , even harder than your latest promotion or appraisal…go and tell your partner how much you love him/her…..don’t scare off the cupid from your life….

DON’T LET CUPID LOST ITS WAY IN YOUR LIFE………………….

Where all the fun gone?

How often you had seen kids of current genre enjoying the things they are doing even if the result doesn’t fall in their favor? Or how often we had see any one for instance just enjoying the act and forget the competition involved behind that?

Whenever I get time to interact with my cousins I only feel that even if they are playing with their friends, lot of competition get involved in that act.

I still remember my childhood, when every evening from 4-6 pm it use to be my playing time where we use to enjoy the company of our friends. There wasn’t any hustle and tussle to come first or sense of competition in that era.

Why every kid around the block has forget the biggest lesson of life that “winning and losing doesn’t matter, what all matter is level of commitment. That is what is in your control” Why now days everything has become the matter of pride and not just the matter of fun.

Where all the fun gone from this fast paced life, now days kids join the rat race well before they can even sense or understand the beauty of life.

Why? Parents keep pushing their kid to score only in Nineties why cant we have some good healthy eighties as well. Now days kids join coaching centers well before they can even learn to cross the streets.

They might not be allowed to climb the top self to get cookies but they are allowed to strain themselves like hell to score A+.

It seems that this is just the beginning ….we might see a genre where kids will say “A+” before they can say mom or dad…..