Love..the most divine and sacred feeling of all time. There is no comparison of being in true love with anything in the world. Definition of it may vary from person to person and perception to perception but the basic remain the same….
But slowly and gradually this love seems to fizz out or sit on the back seat of life and responsibilities and achievement take over the wheel ….there is no issue to prioritize other primary things of life but why on earth does love have to take a step backward? Why can’t all these things go hand in hand?
All those habits which used to feel like best in the world or cute or interesting after that phase feel like embarrassment or silly or childish or some time just ridiculous. Why the feel of love and effect of cupid lost in the way? Why the bonds of love take shape of iron chain?
I had seen in many relations where couple started with glimpse in the eyes and love in the heart but over the period of time eyes start showing just the level of responsibility and kind of duty which both have do and not the feeling which both should share.
What is the reason behind all these things? Why feeling lost its touch?
Lets see ….when we fall in love, in order to keep or partner happy or to show how much they love each other they started sacrificing the important bonds of their life, for someone it could be friends, for someone else it could be drinking and smoking and the list goes on and on……but over the period of time those things tend to come back from one way or other..on few instances they ignore those requirements which keep clicking in their mind, and which could coz any debate or argument and then those arguments lead them back to all those habits or stuff which they thought they left it way back in past. And it starts creating space between the couple which led to big communication gap.
Yes.. you got it right communication gap is other issue which chase cupid out of the life. People here are afraid of discussing the things and try to ignore the seriousness of the matter. They feel it’s just a passing phase of life it will be all right slowly and gradually, but unfortunately it doesn’t and it will not until and unless both of them come together and share their feelings……..
So, do not make these small things effect your relation..relations are hard earned , even harder than your latest promotion or appraisal…go and tell your partner how much you love him/her…..don’t scare off the cupid from your life….
DON’T LET CUPID LOST ITS WAY IN YOUR LIFE………………….
Every one want a cupid ....but u know cupid is very special ....full of emotion ,love & Responsibility...the only reason to lost is lack of communication cant be..
ReplyDeleteIf u r taking about iron chain than it is better than glass...its all about perception to feel & understand ur life and your cupid dear